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When he doesn’t open up

A friend confided in me that longtime would embark on projects without informing her. One time, he applied for the job, did the interview and aptitude test but didn’t inform her until he had started working. Quite naturally, she was upset about being left out. She didn’t want to be just part of the happy stories. She wanted to share his burden like any good girlfriend would. 

So, when your husband/boyfriend doesn’t open up to you, how do you deal with it?

1. Be understanding

You shouldn’t be out to pick a fight. Ask him as gently as possible why he doesn’t feel comfortable with sharing with you. It should be a mature conversation, not an argument or blame game.

2. Don’t make it about you

Focus on him-how he might be feeling and what he may be going through. Remember that most times, we are all products of external influences so concentrate on his feelings. Put yourself in his shoes.

3. Ease up on him

Sometimes, rather than applying so much pressure on him to open up to you, let him be. It can be tough to look the other way but let him come to you when he is ready.

4. Earn his trust

He may not tell you what he is up to sometimes because he is scared that his business may end up in someone else’s ears, especially if you have a family member or friend that you tell everything to. You need to reassure him of your feelings and prove that you can be his confidant.

5. Open up to him too

The best way to get him to confide in you is being as vulnerable as possible too. Involve him in all you are up to. It will ease his insecurities.

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